Using the Cards
You are free to use these conversation cards in whichever order you’d like! Take turns picking a card and provide time and space for each person to answer.
These questions for dating, couples and friends are specifically designed in an open-ended way to encourage you to elaborate on your answers and share as much as you’d like.
Honor Your Discernment
Use your judgment to decide which questions suit your current stage – for example, for date night questions, some people might skip intimacy topics until you're a few months into dating whereas others may feel ready to discuss these topics on the first or second date. Work on the timeline that suits you.
Honor your boundaries and trust yourself.
Create Engaging Conversation
Be engaged in the other person’s answers and experience by asking follow up questions to keep the conversation going and learn more about them. Use these questions to really get to know someone.
And remember that kindness goes a long way. Be kind and compassionate. These questions are meant to create connection or bring clarity on alignment, not to judge or criticize.
Let Everything Unsaid Be Said
Be open, honest and vulnerable in your answers. You deserve to be seen and loved for who you truly are.
And come back to the cards! Continue to revisit these cards over time. Many of your answers will likely evolve and change, just like you. So keep getting to know each other through every chapter of life.
