Dating & Couples

Honestly? Both! Check out the Couples Bundle to save some money by buying them together. We believe every couple should use Dating & Couples. If you've been together for a long time, there may be some things you've already asked, but likely there are plenty you haven't. This really is the foundation deck.

However, if you're looking to start with just one:

If you've been in a relationship less than a year, try Dating & Couples.

If you've been in a relationship for a year or more, try Long-Term & Married Couples.

There are questions in this deck that would be beneficial for a first date, but the real purpose of this deck is to use these questions to get to know someone new over time.

Think of these dating conversation cards as having intro questions for date #1 and then getting deeper and more specific as you have more dates and spend time together over the course of those first few months and throughout that first year.

From there? Welcome in the Long-Term & Married Couples deck or start with the Couples Bundle from the get go.

Here are some things that could happen by using these conversation starters (although of course everyone's experience and situation is different so nothing is a for sure guarantee)...

Clarity on the relationships that are truly in alignment with what you need and want.

Deep, meaningful connection with people in your life.

Falling in love.

Honesty and vulnerability.

Making new friends that feel like family.

Understanding of your own desires, needs and inner self.

Support in asking the important questions that you may not otherwise ask.

Laughter, fun, and joy.

An opportunity to be seen and loved for exactly who you are (with the right people).

We are so glad you asked, because...lots of things 😊

Many decks out there create questions that cause conflict or use "shock value" questions as an attempt at creating connection. With Everything Unsaid, the questions have been intentionally created (by a real human, not just thrown together by AI) to create curiosity, support, and kindness.

These conversation starter questions are also open-ended, allowing for meaningful conversation to flow rather than simple yes or no answers.

They are real questions for real people. They are grounded, meaningful, and based on real client pain points and struggles...

Because these decks were created by someone who has worked as a practitioner in the mental health and healing field for 10+ years! So these questions aren't just randomly pieced together. They have been thoroughly thought out and put together based on work with countless clients like YOU who struggle with creating healthy connection, navigating dating, sustaining long-term commitment, and making new friends as an adult.

People also love the Divider Card touch to help you effortlessly keep track of which cards you have or have not used yet.

These are just a few of the many reasons!

This is totally normal! Do you know what this means? That you care and that this means something to you. And that is so beautiful.

For all sorts of reasons it can feel very scary to put yourself out there, be vulnerable, and ask questions that most people don't ask each other (but should!).

Most of us were never taught or shown how to communicate effectively or how to create healthy relationships.

You can acknowledge the nervous and awkward feelings and then still show up and be open to the goodness that unfolds. Because you really deserve this level of connection even if - especially if - it's something you're not used to.

Absolutely not! Honor your discernment. These cards are not meant to all be asked on a first date. Rather, they are meant to guide you over time to understand and feel if a relationship, a person, is the right fit for you.

Because this is the Dating & Couples deck, maybe you're using this on first dates or maybe you start using it 2 months in once you're exclusive with someone new.

Whatever your situation, use your judgment to decide which questions suit your current stage – for example, you might skip intimacy topics until you're a few months into dating whereas some people may be ready to discuss these topics on the first date. Work on the timeline that suits you.

While these questions are a guide to create deep, meaningful connection you might not otherwise have access to, they are not to force you into discussing topics you're not yet ready to discuss.

Honor your boundaries and trust yourself.

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