Everything Unsaid
Long-Term & Married Couples
Long-Term & Married Couples
A conversation card deck for couples who want to feel deeply connected, discover even more about each other, and keep the spark alive no matter how long you've been together.
Great for couples who have been together for at least 1 year.
- 125 Questions
- 5 Categories
- 18+
Perfect For...
Perfect For...
- Date nights that feel repetitive
- Long-distance relationships
- Couples who feel a little disconnected
- Road trips
- Getting past surface-level conversations
- Talking about the things you want to but may otherwise feel awkward bringing up
- Reconnecting after becoming new parents
- And so much more...
How to Play
How to Play
The reality? You sit down together, not expecting much.
You pull a card. You hesitate for a second… then answer honestly.
One question turns into another.
You laugh. You pause. You learn something new about each other.
And somehow, you feel so much closer than you did an hour ago.
That is the priceless impact.
For a full list of "rules", check out the How to Play page.
Categories
Categories
You & Me
Explore the heart of who you are, the evolution of your relationship, and how you’ve grown together.
Pillow Talk
Light-hearted questions to bring joy, laughter, and curiosity back into your connection.
The Heart of It
Meaningful prompts to nurture vulnerability, closeness, compassion, and emotional connection.
Bare It All
Conversations about intimacy, desires, and physical connection to deepen pleasure and understanding.
Built to Last
Reflect on your future vision, shared values, and day-to-day relationship to stay aligned and grow intentionally together.
Is This For You?
Is This For You?
This deck is recommended for couples who have been together for 1 year or more.
However, trust your own judgement. If you've been together 6 months but feel a strong connection and solid foundation, this deck could absolutely be for you, too!
Even better? Check out the Couples Bundle to save money and get both.
Due to the mature nature of some of the questions, these decks are intended for adults 18 and older.
Specs & Details
Specs & Details
Inside the Box
- 125 Questions
- 5 Categories
- 1 Divider Card
- 1 Instructions Card
- 1 Category Description Card
Design
- High quality anti-scratch matte box
- Sturdy 350gsm matte cards
- Vertical card orientation
- Divider Card to track the cards you've used
Dimensions
- Portable size: 3.75" × 3" × 2.3"
- 11 oz
Return/Exchange Policy
Return/Exchange Policy
All sales are final and may not be returned, canceled, or exchanged.
International Shipping Fees
International Shipping Fees
Currently we ship throughout the U.S., Canada and most of Europe.
All international orders are shipped DDU (Delivered Duty Unpaid). This means:
- Duties, taxes, and import fees are collected by your local customs authorities or carrier.
- These charges are not included in your order total at checkout.
- We may still collect applicable VAT or sales tax at checkout where required by law, and this is separate from any import duties or fees that may be charged on delivery.
- Customs processing may introduce additional delays beyond the transit times listed above.
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I am loving the new conversation cards! I keep them out on my kitchen table to spark up a fun convo during dinner and have been loving them!
I really love the thoughtful prompts that are inviting and intentional to build connection but dig a little deeper with kindness. There is a certain other brand that I joke and call the 'fight cards' but not Everything Unsaid. These are so well thought out and my fiance and I loved the prompts!
The thoughtful questions in this deck create an opportunity for genuine, deep discussion with your partner. They also make you look inside yourself, digging a bit further into your desires, emotions, behaviors, wants and needs. As someone who struggles knowing my own needs and desires, let alone communicating them to my partner, these questions are immensely helpful for personal clarity. These are not just cliche, trite questions like your favorite color or animal. They open up a space for meaningful connection and understanding. Highly recommend for all couples!
Life gets busy and it’s easy for conversations to revolve around work, kids and everyday responsibilities. I ordered the long term & married couples deck and these cards have helped my husband and I intentionally slow down and reconnect. The cards spark meaningful conversations we wouldn’t normally have and have helped us learn new things about each other.
If you’re looking for a simple way to strengthen your relationship and make quality time together, I highly suggest these cards!
I am so thankful I bought this question deck for my husband and I. It was so amazing to have questions come up to learn things about eachother even after we’ve been married 8 years and together for 13. Sometimes I have trouble with phrasing a question or even just getting conversation started and this deck is pure magic!!! We took the deck on a trip and had intentional time and left feeling more connected than we’ve been in our entire relationship. I can’t wait to keep working through the deck and to unearth more about each other. The cards have helped me find my voice and confidence in sharing my thoughts and feelings in a safe space. Can’t recommend enough!!
Beautifully made product. The cards have been perfect for long car rides and quiet nights without the kids with my husband!
We absolutely love these cards! My boyfriend is a guys guy so I was so nervous introducing the idea to him, but to my surprise, he loved them! He now even asks me to get out our cards! I love all the categories too! We recently brought these on vacation with us and were asking each other questions while wine tasting and my boyfriend said we can’t do the ‘spicy’ category in public! So funny and so fun! It really allows you to go deep on things and you’ll be surprised the conversations it strikes up! Highly recommend!
My husband and I picked up this deck thinking it would just be a cute little game night thing… and it ended up being way more than we expected. We’ve been together for 5 years, and at 7 months postpartum, it was such a fun way to slow down, really listen, and reconnect after the whirlwind of sleepless nights and all the chaos of new parenthood. We laughed, had a few sweet moments, and even remembered some of the reasons we fell in love in the first place.
If you want a fun way to level up your relationship, this deck is the way to go!
We love the questions, and the deep but fun conversations that the deck starts!
Everyone needs a deck of cards from Everything Unsaid! My husband of 8 years (been together for 10 years now) and I really enjoy the 'Long-Term & Married Couples' deck! When you've been with someone for so long whether they're family, friends, spouse - you naturally feel like you run out of conversation topics or you might not be asking the 'right' questions to truly get to know one another. I've learned through this card deck that there are so many deeper levels you can get to with a person when asked the right questions. There's 125 cards per deck so you can play rounds and rounds with each round feeling brand new! These cards were so fun, reflective, enjoyable and enlightening!
This isn't just a card game
Most couples don’t struggle with communication, they struggle with depth.
You fall into the same conversations. The same routines. The same surface level check-ins.
And the things that actually matter? They stay unsaid.
Everything Unsaid decks...
Are filled with thought-provoking questions that go beyond small talk
Are designed to create real emotional connection
Help you open up without it feeling forced
Turn an ordinary night into something meaningful
Frequently Asked Questions
If I am in a relationship, should I get the Dating & Couples or Long-Term & Married Couples deck?
Honestly? Both! Check out the Couples Bundle to save some money by buying them together. We believe every couple should use Dating & Couples. If you've been together for a long time, there may be some things you've already asked, but likely there are plenty you haven't. This really is the foundation deck.
However, if you're looking to start with just one:
If you've been in a relationship less than a year, try Dating & Couples.
If you've been in a relationship for a year or more, try Long-Term & Married Couples.
What will I get out of the Long-Term & Married Couples deck?
Here are some things that could happen by using this relationship questions game (although of course everyone's experience and situation is different, so nothing is a for sure guarantee)...
Clarity on the relationships that are truly in alignment with what you need and want.
Getting out of a rut with a long-term partner.
Deep, meaningful connection with people in your life.
Reigniting the spark.
Being heard and understood and gaining more understanding about your partner.
Remembering why you fell in love in the first place.
Honesty and vulnerability.
Understanding of your own desires, needs and inner self.
Support in asking the important questions that you may not otherwise ask.
Laughter, fun, and joy.
Getting to know new versions of each other as you each change, grow and evolve.
Discussions about things other than to-do's, children, work or tasks.
An opportunity to be seen and loved for exactly who you are right now.
What makes Everything Unsaid different from other question cards and conversation decks?
We are so glad you asked, because...lots of things 😊
Many decks out there create questions that cause conflict or use "shock value" questions as an attempt at creating connection. With Everything Unsaid, the questions have been intentionally created (by a real human, not just thrown together by AI) to create curiosity, support, and kindness.
These questions are also open-ended, allowing for meaningful conversation to flow rather than simple yes or no answers.
They are real questions for real people. They are grounded, meaningful, and based on real client pain points and struggles...
Because these decks were created by someone who has worked as a practitioner in the mental health and healing field for 10+ years! So these questions aren't just randomly pieced together. They have been thoroughly thought out and put together based on work with countless clients like YOU who struggle with creating healthy connection, navigating dating, sustaining long-term commitment, and making new friends as an adult.
People also love the Divider Card touch to help you effortlessly keep track of which cards you have or have not used yet.
These are just a few of the many reasons!
What if I feel nervous or awkward using these decks?
This is totally normal! Do you know what this means? That you care and that this means something to you. And that is so beautiful.
For all sorts of reasons it can feel very scary to put yourself out there, be vulnerable, and ask questions that most people don't ask each other (but should!).
Most of us were never taught or shown how to communicate effectively or how to create healthy relationships.
You can acknowledge the nervous and awkward feelings and then still show up and be open to the goodness that unfolds. Because you really deserve this level of connection even if - especially if - it's something you're not used to.
What if my partner won't use the decks with me?
I think the most important part of this is to understand the why?
Is it because they're nervous, feel awkward, or don't know how to express their feelings and be vulnerable? In which case they may need your love, safety, and assurance. Perhaps you start with the lighter categories.
Or is because they've completely shut down the idea and won't even discuss it as an option, unwilling to go deeper?
These are two very different energies and will give you understanding into the person you're with, the dynamic of your relationship, and if it aligns with what you need and want.
Are there additional fees for shipping outside of the U.S.?
Currently we ship throughout Canada and most of Europe.
All international orders are shipped DDU (Delivered Duty Unpaid). This means:
- Duties, taxes, and import fees are collected by your local customs authorities or carrier.
- These charges are not included in your order total at checkout.
- We may still collect applicable VAT or sales tax at checkout where required by law, and this is separate from any import duties or fees that may be charged on delivery.
- Customs processing may introduce additional delays beyond the transit times listed above.
You can check out the full list of FAQs here.